Kids as “Go-Betweens” for their Separated Parents
When separated parents use their children as messengers, the child experiences intimidation, fear and even guilt. Here’s how this happens…… Watch Video
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31 MAR 14
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Positive Outcomes of Divorce
Imagine that you’re preparing your husband’s favorite meal. He walks through the door at dinnertime and you greet him. Suddenly, and without any provocation at all, his mood changes. It’s as if a dark cloud has come over the room. Your mind starts racing back, you wonder what did you say, what did you do?
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24 MAR 14
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Pediatrician: Don’t Make Your Kid’s Healthcare a Proxy in Your Divorce Battles
For whatever reason, the relationship ends. But the former couple manage to maintain some level of good will toward each other. Perhaps they even remain on friendly terms. I have many patients with parents like this. Though their marriage has come to an end, they find a way of treating each other well. Or at
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24 MAR 14
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Perfect Parents Do Not Exist: Forgive Yourself These 6 Parenting Mistakes
Guilt and parenthood just seem to go together. Maybe you lost control and screamed at your child today, or perhaps you’re struggling to give your kids enough – or you might be worrying that you’re doing too much. Whatever the cause, most parents experience guilt regularly. I’ve talked with so many people who were beating
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24 MAR 14
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4 Ways Divorced Parents Can Plan For Their Kids’ College Tuition
Feb 28 (Reuters) – Figuring out how to split childcare costs when you’re divorcing is not easy, but it can be like remedial math compared to deciding who pays what for your children’s college education. There are countless issues that can come up, but if you’re divorced and have visions of your children someday showing
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Coping With Divorce: The Times You Feel Like You Just Got Punched
Have you ever done a kickboxing class? I’d highly recommend it as a tool for coping with divorce. It feels so great to throw punches when you’re feeling angry, bitter, enraged or resentful. On the flip side, there are certain moments during divorce that feel like someone is kickboxing you. Times when you feel like you just
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